Relationship, Time & Attention

Building relationship with others requires time and attention … But we can’t avoid, or can we ? (hmmmm … )

Building relationship with yourself requires equal time and attention … Why are most people avoiding listening to their own voice … (hmmmm … ) …

Everyone has the same amount of time (24 hours a day) …

during this 24 hours, you are either building relationship with yourself chasing after your own dream or building relationships with others & helping other people realize their dreams … or etc etc … nowadays, the social relationship web are getting more and more dynamics …

In this post, I am sharing what I did to identify some small pockets of stuffs to create more time and attention for my own self … realizing your own dream … in my next post, maybe Feb 2015, I am sharing with you on TRELLO, a project managment tool that I recently learn how to use and it’s just FANTASTIC to create more TIME and SPACE ! …

okok, don’t deviate, let’s get back to this blogpost …

many of my friends said, I want to lose weight, but no TIME go to exercise … I want to do XYZ, but no TIME to do XYZ … well, if you want to engage in something, you need time & attention …so sorry ya,  I am very lazy to type , so I did a video sharing about this blogpost… Do click the video & view ya … xie xie …

well, i don’t do this intentional …  I just naturally so lazy and always trying to avoid distractions & clutter, because I am so tired & lazy to entertain everything else that distracts me from doing what I love … then my friend said, “wai !!! please share with us how you do what you do lar … only then I created this blogpost … just for sharing … 🙂

it’s a part of “the Art of Laziness” which I am well-known for … being a very lazy girl … click here to view blog about my laziness … https://foundermethod.com/be-lazy/ … (there’s story of Jack Ma, the world’s riches man, i learn how to be lazy from him ) …

Main Objective of the Video: Create Time & Attention so that we can achieve what we really truly love to achieve

Overview of video:  Building Relationships are great way to enhance your career, business & network. Building Relationships are also a great distraction for you to fully enjoy what you really love doing of learning … Because relationships with other people comes with certain reciprocal obligation that you make you feel guilty if you don’t return the favour … like attending their open house, events, celebrations etc .. or their children’s event or celebration … or anything that requires your time & attention … 

Actionable Items:

1. It’s close to Chinese New Year 2015, do a count on how many Pre-CNY, Post-CNY, During CNY celebrations, open house, company events, spouse company events, interest group gathering etc etc that you are attending in year 2015

2. if you want to create time, space & attention , you need to do a audit on where you spend your time and attention. Only then, you can slowly transactionally detach from certain relationships that distracts you from achieving your childhood dream or what you really truly want to do …

3. It is not an easy exercise, I have practiced for 1 year to detach … but in return, I gotta pick up any new things or learn anything I wish to … doing more syiok sendiri activities …

Happy Preparing for CNY !

1 Comment

  • syahmie

    Reply Reply January 9, 2015

    cant wait for the TRELLO hands on webinar..

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